1. Intro

I’ve been getting a lot of feedback from men that can’t manage to grab a decent girl, and men that are spending entirely too much time trying to win over the same girl. It has occurred to me that many of you don’t quite understand how you attract the very hot women, so I think it’s time to go over basic Asshole Theory 101:

2. Punish Her First

The very thing that many guys do wrong, is they reward women right away. They give her too much attention, compliment her, and immediately treat her like a princess. They do this because they are afraid that he might lose her if he isn’t nice to her. My strategy with hot women? Always punish them first. You see this all throughout my blog. My very first objective is to knock her off of that pedestal, and I do this by not acknowledging women, making fun of them, and by using negative body language such as rolling my eyes when she looks at me or letting out that “pfft” sound that I’m know to make. How did I get the attention of my ex-wife that every guy was chasing? I immediately made fun of her Italian nose and ignored her. Remember Blue Eyes? How did I get her attention? I flat out told her that she wasn’t that hot. How did I get the attention of an OSU swimsuit calendar girl? When a friend introduced us, I refused to shake her hand when she extended it and it drove her crazy. Things like this will set you apart from the losers. She already knows that she is hot shit, so it is up to you to send a message that says "I know you think you're hot shit, but my shit's even hotter.".

3. Reward Her Next

Once she begins to show interest and chase after me, I tone it down and start rewarding her. When I sat next to my ex-wife, I didn’t keep being an ass. She was being nice, so I made her laugh with my jokes. When Blue Eyes started yelling at me, I told her that she was absolutely right and that she was a nice girl. When I was with VK, and I blurted out that the toned chick looked fat, when she walked back towards me, I rewarded her by telling her that she actually had a nice body. The mistake that I see the majority of you making when you try to be assholes, is that you keep being an asshole when it isn’t necessary. Once a girl starts chasing after you, trying to prove herself to you, starts showing interest in you, or you overshoot with your comment, you need to change gears. This is what makes me so good. I know when to turn it down and reward when necessary.

4. Always Show Value

This is what embarrasses me about other seduction community guys. They’ll start out by knocking her off of her pedestal, and then they start rewarding her. The problem? They just keep on rewarding her for bad behavior. At this point, she just keeps stringing men along and they follow. When a girl doesn’t give me what I want or doesn’t continue to show interest in me, then it’s time to revert to punishing her. And I’ll keep punishing her until she gives me what I want. I’m not going to chase her, I’m not going to keep calling her, and I’m not going to give her anymore of my time. If she’s a part of my social circle, then I’m going to shut her out of it. I’ll invite out everyone except for her. And every time that I see her, I’m going to make fun of or ignore her until she get back with the program.

5. Example

My last two stories with Appleface. Remember when I met up with her at Brothers? She wasn’t all over me like she usually is, so I had to start clowning her. I gave her a shot of water, I made a subtle comment about not liking her hair, and I didn’t give her the attention that she was use to receiving from me. The next time I saw her? She came up to me first, she asked me to stay when my friends were leaving, and in turn, I didn’t make fun of her, I gave her my attention, and we spent our time in the bar kissing for the entire night. She had made a complete 180 and stopped that “I’m a lady now, so I don’t make out in bars” bullshit. The same thing for another girl of mine. She pissed me off by listening to her friends, so I immediately stopped calling her, stopped returning her messages, etc. And within a few days? “Look, I know you have two other girls, and that’s cool, but I just want to be with you. Fuck my friends, I won’t listen to them anymore. I just want to be with you again.”.

6. Final Words

I could go on and on, but being an effective asshole is all about reward & punishment at the proper times. The shit is so simple. Knock her off of her platform, reward her for good behavior, and don’t let bad behavior go unpunished. Once you begin to understand this, your interactions with hot girls will be a breeze. Asshole Theory 101.